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Lively Stones

July 26, 2019 by Christy Leave a Comment

Do you ever feel like you are not much more important than a rock? Just an unglamorous, maybe even uncelebrated rock.

Sometimes just the day-in, day-out mundaneness of life can get us down. God doesn’t call us to one fabulous mountain top moment after another. Most of the time it is one step in front of another obedience, mostly in small things.

However, even rocks will cry out to God if nobody else does. In the book of Joshua in the Bible, Joshua set up a stone as a witness to his people that it had heard all the words God had spoken to them. Joshua said that it would be a witness against them if they were untrue to God. (Joshua 24:27) Also in Luke when Jesus’ followers were proclaiming that He was the king come in the name of the Lord and the Pharisees tried to quiet them, Jesus said that if the disciples stopped, the stones themselves would cry out the truth.

I think one of the hardest disciplines of all in life is to learn to just be, no matter where God might have us at the moment, even if we feel like a rock. Oswald Chambers asserts that, “So often we mar God’s designed influence through us by our self-conscious effort to be consistent and useful. Jesus says that there is only one way to develop spiritually, and that is by concentration on God.” This is so hard for me to believe. I am always fascinated by nature: rocks, trees and animals freely living out their God designed plan without worrying about if they are useful or not. I have such a difficult time relaxing into God’s plans for me and just learning to be.

The amazing thing is, that it is actually God’s plan for us to be living stones in His spiritual house. I Peter 2:4-5 says, “As you come to Him, the living Stone- rejected by men but chosen by God and precious to Him- you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house.” I love this term, “living stone”, because it means that even if I feel like gravel or a diamond, God is using me in His kingdom, it is just in His way and in His time. The other thing I like about this verse is that it was written by Peter who knew all about going from feeling outcast and useless to actually having his name changed to “Rock” by Jesus Himself and becoming a part of His kingdom.

So even if today doesn’t feel that exciting, know that God is doing a great work in you. Lean into Jesus even if circumstances aren’t what you wish they were. Obey even when it seems boring. As Oswald Chambers also said, “if we keep concentrated on Him we will grow spiritually as the lilies.”–or rocks!

“‘Blessed is the king who comes in the name of the Lord!’ ‘Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!’ Some of the Pharisees in the crowd said to Jesus, ‘Teacher, rebuke your disciples!’ ‘I tell you,’ He replied, ‘if they keep quiet, the stones will cry out.'” Luke 19:38-40

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Will You Be My Friend?

July 19, 2019 by Christy Leave a Comment

Before we worry about learning our letters or numbers in Kindergarten, this is the question uppermost in our minds. Will anyone like me? Will I make any friends? Honestly, except for the most independent of us, this really doesn’t change even as we get older.

Friendship is so important. We all need friends to support and encourage us as we navigate this sometimes difficult life. We also need to be friends to others and share encouragement with them.

Recently, I was reading through the Old Testament in the Bible. I came to a part where it had all these lists going on and on about different people’s jobs: so and so was in charge of this, and so and so was in charge of that. I was skimming over these when I was suddenly brought up short. I Chronicles 27:33 says, “Hushai the Arkite was the king’s friend.” That isn’t actually even the whole verse, it is tacked onto the end of verse 33. I thought this was so amazing that this man’s friendship was so valuable that it ended up being recorded with other important jobs in the kingdom!

In my own life, my friends have been invaluable to me. They have stuck with me through some extremely difficult things. Sometimes I will be having a bad day and one of my friends will text me just to say they are thinking of me and praying for me. It seems like a little thing, but some days it is everything.

Of course we have all heard that to have a friend we must be a friend. This is true. We also need to be the one to send the text or an email, (or mail an actual card!) We also need to not underestimate the value of praying for our friends. The wonderful thing about being friends is that we usually know what the struggles are in each other’s lives and so we are in a better position to pray specifically and effectively for each other.

Even if you are feeling friendless right now, don’t forget that you have a best friend who is with you no matter what. Jesus died on the cross for the chance to be your friend. He is as close as a thought or a whisper, so you can tell Him anything. And He promises that nothing can ever take His friendship away. All you have to do is answer His question, “Will you be my friend?”

“The Lord is a friend to those who fear Him. He teaches them His covenant.” Psalm 25:14

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No Fear

July 12, 2019 by Christy Leave a Comment

I know we are familiar with this saying as it relates to extreme athletes that maybe should have more fear about what they are attempting to do, but every one of us struggles with some form of fear every day. May I be bold and say that it doesn’t have to be that way?

There are many themes in the Bible that seem to reoccur throughout the entire book. The theme of, “No fear” resonates from Genesis to Revelation. It must be because even the bravest of us have underlying fear. Joshua was one of the mightiest warriors in the Bible, in fact some of his military strategies are still used to this day, however God had to tell him to be strong and courageous over and over.

A verse that is a favorite with many people is I Timothy 1:7 that says, “For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.” Did you catch that? The opposite of fear is power or in another word, strength. This strength doesn’t come from ourselves though, it comes from God. We do have to believe that He gives us this strength and also receive it. In this verse power is also linked with love, there is so much strength in the love of God.

One of the problems with fear is that it doesn’t just come from within ourselves, we have a very active enemy who is throwing fear at us all day long. In the book of Nehemiah in the Bible, the Jewish exiles had returned to Jerusalem and were trying to rebuild. The trouble was that they had a lot of opposition to what they were trying to do. In Nehemiah 6:8-9, Nehemiah answers some of his accusers, “‘Nothing like what you are saying is happening; you are just making it up out of your head.’ They were all trying to frighten us, thinking, ‘Their hands will get too weak for the work, and it will not be completed.’ But I prayed, ‘Now strengthen my hands.'” Do you see what they were doing? The enemies were trying to weaken him with fear.

All of us know that feeling. When fear comes at us suddenly, it can feel like all the strength leaves our bodies, particularly our arms and hands. However, God can strengthen us. Zephaniah, another book in the Bible, says “Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands hang limp. The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save.” (Zephaniah 3:16-17) The thing we have to remember is that when fear comes at us, we need to pray for help quickly.

I am learning to not let the fear take hold of me and knock me down, but to cry out for help to God. He is always ready to come to our rescue and give us a sound mind to figure out what the truth about the fear is. Most of the time I find that the fear is not even real, it just appears real. Another verse that I love is Proverbs 31:17b, “Her arms are strong for her tasks.” Just like He did for Nehemiah, God will make our arms strong for the tasks He gives us each day. So we can wake up in the morning and proclaim, “No fear!”

“The Lord your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with His love, He will rejoice over you with singing.” Zephaniah 3:17

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In Whom Do We Trust?

May 31, 2019 by Christy Leave a Comment

As you might guess from the title, this blog is about our money. It is really amazing how hard it is to trust God in this area. I almost feel as though I can more easily trust Him with my eternal salvation and destination, than I can trust Him to provide for my needs today! Since the founding fathers of our country chose to inscribe our currency with the term, “In God we trust,” I am guessing I am not the only one with this hang up.

I think money is especially difficult for followers of Jesus. We have all kinds of differing beliefs about wealth, from people deliberately living in poverty, to the prosperity gospel believers. I think the bottom line comes down to trust. Are we trusting that our God is a good God, able to supply all we need and to give us wisdom and discernment in how to use our resources?

As I mentioned, this is very hard to do. My personal goal is to get to a place of faith and trust where I don’t worry anymore about whether or not God will provide for me. I want to have unshakable faith that of course my heavenly Father is going to take care of me. Despite the fact that God has never let me down, I still doubt!

As many of you know, I really love “My Utmost For His Highest,” by Oswald Chambers. I recently read that he says that trusting God to provide for us is actually a habit and one of the first that we need to establish in our spiritual lives. The reason for this is that it is not just about our material provision, but the provision of His grace and power in our lives. If we say we are following Jesus, but are still just scraping by each day in our own strength, it doesn’t say much about the redemptive power of the cross!

My prayer for us as Jesus’ followers is that we will make it a habit to trust more and more in God’s abundant provision in every area of our lives. That we wouldn’t fall into bed at night with a feeling of having barely made it through the day, but with a sense of confidence and peace. That we would be able to look back through each day and see God providing over and over and to also look forward with expectancy to tomorrow when we know that He will do it all over again.

“Yours, O Lord, is the greatness and the power and the glory and the majesty and the splendor, for everything in heaven and earth is Yours. Yours, O Lord, is the kingdom; You are exalted as head over all. Wealth and honor come from You; You are the ruler of all things. In Your hands are strength and power to exalt and give strength to all.” I Chronicles 29:11-12

(For any of you that would like more information about a Godly perspective on finances or how to get out of debt or manage money better, I would highly recommend Dave Ramsey. He has written many books on the subject, has a radio show and a very helpful website. You can find more at www.DaveRamsey.com)

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A Soft Place To Land

May 24, 2019 by Christy 2 Comments

Every now and then we all need a soft place to land. If you pay attention, that is actually what most of our sitcoms are about. “Cheers” spelled it out most clearly with their theme song titled “Where Everybody Knows Your Name.” Life can be tough and all of us long for a place to land, where everyone truly knows and accepts us–even at our worst.

From the bar of “Cheers,” sitcoms traveled to a coffee shop in New York on the show “Friends.” Once again the theme was really about being loved and accepted for who you are.

Some of us are blessed to have physical places we can go like this. I am extremely blessed with a few places that I can show up, as is, no questions asked. These places are more about the people than the place–precious people in my life who love me through the good, the bad and the ugly.

In our very disconnected society of social media and texting it is even more important to connect with people in person. I don’t think our longing for that connection has diminished at all, in fact if anything I believe it has increased. Once again, the Bible has it covered. Hebrews 10:25 says, “And let us not neglect our meeting together, as some people do, but encourage one another, especially now that the day of His return is drawing near.”

I would encourage you, if you don’t feel like you have a soft place to land, become that place for others. Open up your heart, and maybe your home, to people who are hurting, (that is actually everyone) and you will be surprised to find that people will treat you the same in return.

The wonderful thing is that God knows us better than anyone else. Even when it feels as though the whole world has abandoned us and there is no one left, He will never leave us. He is always there with His arms open wide to receive us just as we are. And that is the very best place of all to land!

“The Lord will hold me close.” Psalm 27:10b


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Mazes Or Ladders

May 17, 2019 by Christy Leave a Comment

Do you remember the children’s game Chutes and Ladders? It is one of the first board games my children were all able to play. The concept is extremely simple: be the first one to reach the top of the board either one square at a time or by climbing “ladders” if you land on a square with a ladder. The tricky part is there are “chutes,” (slides) waiting on some of the spaces to slide you back down.

Something God has been teaching me this year is how to move straight ahead on His paths. My tendency in the past has been for my thinking to get caught up in mazes, (another favorite with my young children.) I would follow a thought around and around in my mind, instead of looking at the issue through God’s perspective. Now I am learning to ask Him what I should do and then take a step in faith. The really awesome thing is that as I take these steps, I find He provides solid footing for me.

Oddly enough, another name for this board game is “Snakes and Ladders.” While I have never actually seen the board for this version of the game, I have experienced something very similar in my life. I will be moving along on what feels like a firm path to me, just minding my own business. Suddenly I will hear “hissing” in my ear. “Did God really tell you to be doing this? You are going to fail you know. Who do you think you are?” The voice of the enemy can be so loud sometimes that before I know it, I am sliding downward away from the path God had me on.

As I learn to recognize these attacks, I am able to get back on firm footing more quickly. I am learning to stick to the truth of who God says I am and the truth of the direction He has told me to be traveling. I love Psalm 18:36. It says, “You have enlarged my steps under me, that my feet did not slip.” Another verse to encourage me, (and you if this is your struggle) to think in God’s “straight” way instead of in mazes, is Romans 12:2. This verse talks about being transformed by the renewing of our minds. It is so wonderful that God can even change the way we think!

Even though our lives are not supposed to be about climbing to the top of some ladder of success, I hope this encourages on your daily walk with Jesus, that you can know He will make your steps firm as you listen to His leading. I also pray that you will be on guard for the “chutes” or attacks from the enemy that would cause you to slide backwards.

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is–His good, pleasing and perfect will.” Romans 12:2

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